Sometimes life throws things at us, things we can’t anticipate, things we can’t overcome.
But what if you were able to meet life’s mysteries with a sense of opportunity?
You could have it all.
What is life coaching?
Life coaching is for those who are seeking happiness, independence, success or all of the above. A life coach can help anyone who has lost their way or is looking for a new path.
Unlike other coaching which is specifically designed for careers or even fear and anxiety, life coaching looks at the individual components that make up your life as well as the bigger picture.
It isn’t about having all the answers, or delving into the depths of your past. Instead, life coaching provides an optimistic, forward thinking approach, allowing you to press on towards the goals you want to achieve, leaving your bad experiences in the past.
“A good coach doesn’t give advice. A good coach facilitates the opening up and creation of the path to your goal. Using a quiver full of tools to create the path and light your way an excellent coach will assist you to hit your target. Roger has a proven track record of hitting the target every time.”
How does personal coaching work?
Working alongside a personal coach you’ll be guided towards the answers locked inside of yourself. This is achieved using neurolinguistic programming (NLP) where you’ll be able to tap into a myriad of resources and tools that will allow you to overcome life’s challenges.
With NLP and a mentor by your side, your inner self will become your greatest asset as you find the answers you seek in all aspects of life.
NLP isn’t about telling you what to do or how to feel, instead, with time, you will come to know these things, giving you the independence to make life-changing decisions without fear.
What can you achieve with life coaching?
This varies greatly as we all have different goals but a lifestyle coach will empower you with the skills to:
- Learn to be nice to yourself
- Achieve your life dreams
- Be able to exceed your expectations
- Gain greater confidence in whatever you want to do
- Escape from problems; run full pelt to opportunity
- Improve your connections and relationships
Life coaching with Roger Southam
Roger saw the power of NLP first hand back in 2008 when an inspirational panel opened his eyes to the practice. Since then Roger has taken on a varied portfolio of clients across a range of mentoring programmes in a bid to see the lives of others improve.
Roger is fully qualified, established and trusted by other professionals in the industry as well as by his clients. Having studied with one of the best, fellow life and business coach Michael Breen, Roger has proudly practised NLP for years, transforming the personal and professional lives of those around him.
Testimonials What our clients say about our service
Roger Southam made me see that I was making a big general problem from a small specific issue. Making me laugh at it was brilliant. Identification of resources was excellent and to the point. It is easy sitting with him and very comfortable looking at these things. The conclusion and next step was easy and obvious. If we hadn’t done the session I would be where we started. A big thank you.
I liked Roger Southam’s tenacity and direction. When he asked me to make a visual representation of my vision I realised that was what had been missing, and I got it. I appreciate his humour and presence. Thank you. FANTASTIC.
I came to Roger with an issue. I had just walked out of a high-profile position with a very successful firm after a week’s work. After the week at work, I was left with a gamut of emotions including confusion, embarrassment, failure, uncertainty, shame but somehow, relief. I had several options: to go back and give them another go, to walk completely away or to begin the (often) lengthy process of finding another position. In less than three hours Roger enabled me to stop my self-chastisement and get some clarity around the issues and the decision I had to make. We went through a number of processes that allowed me to see why I had walked away, what the real crux of the problem was and what the next steps were.
I have known Roger for a number of years and have always admired his energy, tenacity and ability to ‘think outside the box’. Having recently established a new business I came to Roger to seek advice on a number of issues. He very quickly made me realise that the problems really only existed in my own mind and that by focusing too much on the detail I had lost perspective of the bigger picture. Encouraging me to approach problems with an open mind really gave me clarity. Roger’s intuitive and informal style not only helped resolve these specific issues but has also left me with the confidence to be more decisive in the future
A friend recommended that I speak with Roger as I’d experienced a loss of confidence. The firm I worked for had gone into liquidation and I was suddenly directionless, needing to find a new job but with a growing sense of self-doubt. The idea of facing interviews at that stage was appalling. Roger helped me to put everything into perspective and to draw on past experiences and successes, reminding me of both my confidence and competitiveness. The was invaluable and well spent – now not only do I have a plan hoping forward I also have the resources to help with any future issues.
Going through a very tough time at work made me question my whole ability and what I’d actually achieved over the past 20 years. Roger dissolved those doubts in minutes and showed me how to get what I wanted in simple steps. The obstacles I had created were in fact not obstacles at all. Without Roger’s help I would have gone and hidden in a corner somewhere. Now I know I’ll do better than I’ve ever done before.